In the world of gift giving, there is always going to be disappointment. The worst is when you are in a lovely lesbian dating relationship and you get a gift that you absolutely cannot stand. You do not want to be obnoxious but you also do not want your partner to believe that you are into something that you clearly are not. You also might be around friends or just know that if you say something you might break her heart. That is why there are some lesbian dating gift receiving tips that you should consider before making your claim, “I hate my gift.”
- If you are in front of people, make sure that you put on a happy face. It is one thing to be personally disappointed but it is another to make your partner feel embarrassed. Once everyone goes home, you can start “the discussion”.
- When you begin to talk about your present be kind. Don’t come out and say, wow I hated your gift. Start off by saying “Honey, I know you spent a lot of time and effort picking out my present but…” and you can go on from there.
- The tone of your voice should be calm and loving. If the tone of your voice sounds snotty or angry, your girlfriend will be upset with you and for good reason. You might be sounding selfish which is a complete turnoff.
- Having some foreplay before talking about the disappointment of your gift is also a good idea when it comes to starting this conversation. Don’t make your lesbian relationship suffer because of simple gift.
Lesbian dating is a lot of fun and even though you might be a little disappointed in a gift, is it really that big of a deal to lose your lesbian dating relationship over? Make it clear to your partner that you are not interested in receiving that sort of present but that you really do appreciate the thought that went into the process. This will help to smooth over the entire situation but make it clear about your like’s and dislike’s.
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