Many people would answer that they would date for love so that they are not ridiculed by their ulterior motives. The truth is that there are only a fraction of people who date for true love. Most are more interested in material assets, looks and even success. Some of the most powerful couples in the world aren’t in love. There is no passion. There is no desire to give themselves up for the other. The only look in their eyes is how they can get ahead. When it comes down to your choices in dates, what should you date for?
If you are looking for financial comfort then the best option to date for is money. Not every person with money will be attracted to you and many people can give off the rich vibe when in reality they are just a pretender. You will have to hang out at places where the rich people flock to and you will also have to have the appearance of coming from money. These are usually tight nit circles. The younger you are, the easier it is to date someone with money, regardless of what you bring to the table.
If you are looking to get ahead in your field of work, then you should make as many bridges as you can. One way to do this is by dating someone who has power in the industry that you are working for. This does not mean sleeping to the top. You need to have a successful relationship with this person because as soon as you break up, all of your bridges that you worked so hard to build will be destroyed overnight. By creating a healthy relationship with someone who is in a position of power, will help you to succeed.
Lastly you can date for true love. You should be open to everyone; different professions, body builds and personalities. Love can be staring you straight in the eyes but if you have your eyes focused on money, success or even lust then you will never experience one of the greatest joys in life. With love, you grow with the person, you become rich together and you succeed. There is no specific way to find love as love will usually find you casually. Even if your date isn’t successful right now, it doesn’t mean that in 5 years he won’t be. With love you can’t lose but with the rest you can lose a lot, including your dignity.
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