Lesbian dating can be intimidating at times. You might really fall for someone but be left in the dark as to whether she is a lesbian or at least bisexual. Women are coming out of the closet and online dating sites cater to lesbians so you know exactly who you are dating. However, in the real world, we do not have the pleasure of knowing the sexual orientation of the person who is standing right in front of us. Therefore, you can use these tips to help you in your lesbian dating experience to figure out whether or not the lady of your dreams is a lesbian:
- Start a background check – OK not a real background check, but start doing your homework on her background. Where does she hang out? Do you have any common friends? Where does she work? All of these answers can help you to figure out which side of the field she is batting for.
- Physical Appearance – There is no denying that a woman’s physical appearance can say a lot about her. It is true that appearances can be deceiving but take a deeper look into what she wears, how she walks and how she fixes her hair. You may be surprised to learn about her hidden lesbian habits.
- Subtle Clues – Some subtle clues as to your lady friend being a lesbian can be as simple as the jewelry she wears. If you can spot a gay pride flag,, the Labrys, the Lambda or a double female sign then you may be looking at one fine lesbian.
- Her Favorite Hang Out Spot – Where does your lady friend like to spend her down time? She may be a regular at one of the favorite lesbian hang out spots. Where she spends her time, will say a lot about her as well as the people she shares her time with. Does she seem to have a lot of lesbian friends?
Lesbian dating can be tricky and these tips will not always lead you to your mystery woman being a lesbian. Sometimes we see and hear what we want to because we are blinded by love. Nevertheless, these tips will help you to start your investigation as to whether she is a lesbian or not.
